Naming our boy 💙

So over the next couple of weeks we tried to find a name that we could both decide on that went with Oscar! Me and Oscar picked Arlo as it meant little soldier and he certainly is a little soldier!! Timmy ended up giving in and picked the middle name Thomas 🥰 when I was 18 weeks! our little Arlo Thomas Wilkinson 💙 he's such a strong little baby kicking and wiggling and absolutely adores when timmy talks to him and puts his hand on my tummy he'd kick and flip away!! 

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